Hang in there, I raised 4 sons through the 70's and 80's. They turned out to be great men, I really don't know how, but they did. They pamper me so much. Last night my #2 came in with a beautiful new shoulder bag as he thinks my 16 yr old Coach bag is "out of style". I really like it, but love my Coach bags which he also gave me. They cook for me, when I felt really bad with my spinal stenosis, two of them completely cleaned my house from top to bottom. When they started on the closets, I called a halt however. There is hope. Hang in there.