One girl, three boys. The girl was easier, she pretty much kept to the rules. The oldest son was the hardest, lots of backtalk , younger two never were much trouble, but by the time they all turned 18 they thought they were their own boss. DIdnT take them long to learn they werent as long as they lived at home. By the way, I couldn"t ask for better kids than mine, and that oldest son, he is the greatest . It all works out, you just have to work through the hard years. I think part of the problem is they feel like adults, but us parents still want to treat them like kids. Have to find the happy medium.