My son was very full of himself so he not only became arrogant, but extremely disrespectul. I asked him to leave, the war was on. Because of some issues, I got an order to have him removed. So he calls his grandma and my sister with the attitude of 'I'll show her', and within a month, they also asked him to leave. We didn't speak for about 6 months. It isn't always about caring or not caring, it is about life lessons and self-preservation. We are very close now and a day doesn't go by without an email or a call. He is my baby, but he learned a valuable lesson; I taught him how to respect me. Dr. Phil says we teach people how to treat us, I taught my son that I do have a cut-off.