My daughter uses the one I made my little guy. (she says she doesn't remember me delivering him, might be true but I did her and made it through her teen years).
She is so proud of the quilt. She received four for him, one from my MIL, one from my aunt, her great aunt (my mom's SIL) and one from a lady at church. She uses them all, but I see her out with the one I gave them the most (it was the most detailed). They are meant to be used.
Have you suggested gently that you would love for her to use them?