Oh my, I didn't think I would make it through, I did survive, I don't know how, I have a girl and 2 sons, they are now ages 38, 36 & 34. I got the boys straightened out and the 34 year old is married with 2 boys ages 22mos. and 5 mos. The 36 yr. old is not married but has a steady, both are in college, he will graduate in May from University of Illinois with a degree in architecture. Came back home at 30 to do this. Now the daughter is the problem, she married divorce and now married again, the second hubs is a jerk and all those two think about is themselves. She is driving us all crazy. Anyway good luck to you, you will need it.