I'm happy to say I think my husband understands the situation pretty well. He's always the first to say go ahead and get what I want. He helps with color placement and arranging blocks sometimes. Moved tons of stuff from downstairs to upstairs so I'd have more room for all my stuff. But poor misguided thing that he is, he will brag on me to my embarrasement about how lovely my quilts are - you would think I was Wonder Quilter! - and I'm certainly no where near that!