Every time I watch one of those hoarding shows I wonder how does the partner of the hoarder let them get away with it? If I lived with someone like that I would try my hardest to keep things under control. I would also seek professional help.
I think sometimes that I watch those shows to inspire me not to keep so much STUFF no mater what it is. A organized space is comforting. Having so----------- much is upsetting and uninspiring. Sometimes you have to ask for help. Perhaps her children were busy with their own lives. Her home looked large enough to be organized. I admire her for her dedication to Quilts of Valor. Family should come first no matter what hobby you are involved in.