well one issue is that she lives on the other side of the country! We saw her about 2-3 years ago and before that she was a baby. She calls me and her G'ma (my mil) frequently. we're not either one of us sure that we hear the whole truth from her though.....her dad says nothing to anyone. I think I will ask her what her fav colors are and go from there. Maybe a simple 9p that will go together quickly. Now someone wanna come clean my sewing area and plant my garden for me? I must need my head examined for taking on something else with so much already going on!