Heres what I do. First, I make them a pillow case or a pair, themed with something they like, cars, motorcyles, camping, etc. Then, depending on their reaction, it helps me decide if they are "quilt worthy". My quilt test only applies to adults. However, I made a quilt for a friend, thinking it would be used in a hunting camper and when I gave it to her, she took it home to use, said it was too nice for the camper. Guess you never know, follow what your heart tells you.