Originally Posted by mytwopals
Tell the family to get upset with him and not her. She only has 2 X chromosomes and can't control her side of the pairing. He has the X and Y chromosomes, which do control boy vs. girl.
This. And even if you/she can't tell his family this, then at least let HER know, so that any time anyone says anything to her about it, in her mind she can just laugh at them for being ignorant.
And about the quilt, yeah, a light muslin. Pretty quilt!!! I've never worked with minky, but I hear it's a pain, so congratulations!!!!