Honey, just do not worry about it!
For the longest time I have been BEGGIN my friends and family to help me get organized, since this is NOT my best way.
I really do know where whatever I do need is, and if and when I get that bug up my a$$ to go in that room and organize, it will happen. It actually did happen a couple of weeks ago! I can now walk into the room!
So, take your time, and when you are ready, you will have your room the way you want it to be!