I think this poor woman just got so overwhelmed she didn't know what to do and I think her daughter should have been more understanding, the daughter came across as being selfish. Her mom was trying to do a great thing and trying to please everyone but herself. This should be mom's time, and I wonder just how happy mom is now, she made the ultimate sacrifice. But will the daughter still come over??? or will she find something else to complain about. And what was her excuse for not helping her mom out.