Here's a little something for you...
Cross your arms in front of you.
Bend your elbows and put your left hand on your right shoulder blade and your right hand on your left shoulder blade.
Close your eyes and slightly bring your elbows together without moving your hands off your shoulder blades.
Take a cleansing breath.
...There, I just sent you a HUG!
As you read through all these messages you know you are not alone. Some are fresh, some are not. The important thing is to work through your greif, cherish the memories and build memories with your children. Don't get stuck, keep moving forward. You do beautiful work and I'm sure your parents and husband would want you to keep shining through your work.
--Love and prayers.