Originally Posted by jaciqltznok
Originally Posted by nycbgirl
Im with you about making ME happy!! I just told my husband the other day...." I spent the first 49 years doing what others wanted me to do, I'm gonna spend the next 49 years doing what I WANT TO DO" !!!! If I don't want to do it I'm NOT GOING TO DO IT!
so are you going to be 50 this year?
I am...so I am with you on this!
When I turned 50 I decided that I was going to say what I think. I was tired of keeping quiet. (This applies to my family of 10 siblings) If they don't like it that is their problem. It seems I had to get mad before they paid attention. They have been dealing with it now for 13 years.
I was a committee chair in 2 guilds. They were board positions. Sometimes they didn't like it when I asked why or disagreed. I've cut back on my commitments. I needed more time for me.