Originally Posted by pstoner
A gift from your heart is still a gift, once we give the gift we no longer get to decide what is done with the gift. Give her one if it will satisfy your needs, and be happy that you have done so. Love her as you can, if she doesn't come round with the same care for the gift, at least you know you have done a great thing on your part. The best thing about a gift, is the giving.
(((HUGS))))
I agree with pstoner. If she's near enough, maybe have her come for short visits to help you piece it and put it together. If not, maybe make a photo album of the process with letters to her at each step with your hopes and dreams for her future.
You might try a 10 minute block like this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbTHlGGKMPM
Blessings to you whatever you decide!