i agree with that. It's hard sometimes to know how ppl mean things when you can see their words but not 'hear' how they are inflecting them. I am glad that as a teenager she is into sewing etc. instead of worse things. I've known some really messy teenagers that grew up and kept really nice homes. Some think it is a sign of creativity and intelligence to "mess". I don't mind anybody's but mine, really. :wink: