The thing I think I can offer is ....PATIENCE! I wasnt much for pacing myself, but have learned I get much better results when I do. I will also rip out stitching time and time again to ensure I get it just right. My thoughts are ....if im going to spend the time and hard earned money...I want it to look right. Also Enjoy yourself. If you are not enjoying what your working on...put it away for another time. IT'S REALLY OK!!! :):)