Thanks everyone. I am feeling a lot better about the gift dilema now. I will go to the shower and get a shower gift. I will RSVP that I am not attending the wedding and forget about it. Whew!!! That's a load off my mind. LOL
This girl is young in more ways than one and really needs a few life lessons. She was angry at her MIL and FIL to be because at Christmas they put things like bath beads and such in her stocking. According to her what should be in your Christmas stocking is jewelry or some such things. Poor, poor girl and poor, poor husband to be.