I was once told: "A wedding invitation is not an invoice!". Your shower gift is sufficient followed up by a nice card with hand written note to express your best wishes for a happy life together.
Originally Posted by bailey
Is it proper and are you expected to send a wedding gift if you are invited to a wedding. I will be going to the shower but not the wedding. This girl has made it known that she does not want little things (read not expensive) for her shower. She has made a list of what she wants. I cannot afford both a wedding gift and a shower gift plus the wedding requires a couple of hours travel to attend. Please tell me what is the accepted custom. Thanks,