Your quilt is stunning I have done quilts both ways .I tend to do machine quilting because of time restraints.I love both ways and all my fabric is new. I have so much fun picking out that special fabric. It is a very special part of my quilt journey.You deserve a big hug and this man had know right to be such a thoughtless human being he has know idea how much time and effort went into your beautiful work of art.Put a smile on your face and be proud of your accomplishment .