Here's a big hug just for you - that quilt is gorgeous!
In the old days, and he was probably an old-timer - who was brought up the hard way and only seeing quilts made from reusable clothing! So, don't let him have hurt your feelings or dim your outlook on how wonderful your quilt was - he was just being himself; a disgruntled old gent who was telling it HIS WAY!
It is lovely - enjoy and keep on doing what you are doing - I wish mine looked half that good!!! :)