This gift thing has gotten so out of hand, so often the "kids" dictate exactly what they want and where it comes from. What ever happend to getting 3 toasters,or two blenders lol. I being the hateful thing I can be have been known to tell a bride I could not afford anything left on her list when I asked her what else she needed she said " I only need the under the cubbord stereo on the registry" I looked it up and then proceeded to tell her I have never even spent that much on my own parents!