I am a smoker and I try hard but realize that the smell is on me and can transfer ot my fabrics. Before sending anything out that I can't wash first (fabric pieces to a friend) I package them in a baggie with a couple of fabric dryer sheets - lavander ones. Most have said they can't smell the smoke on it. On things I can wash - my washer and dryer are out in the garage - I still package them that way.
I realize the smell - especially since I am around so many non smokers and so I do try - but I recognize that it doesn't always work and I apologize for my bad habit to the person!