I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but honesty is sometimes wanted. I like to hear what others like, but also about what they noticed as not looking good. When I point something out that bothers me I don't want to hear, "Oh, no one will notice" if, in fact, they will!
I've been quilting for less than 2 years and have turned out quite a few projects -- some terrific, others under par. I have begun to listen only to my own voice since fellow quilters seem to feel it is necessary/important to always praise.