Originally Posted by CloverPatch
I would make the quilt you invisioned. I would NOT give it to her. Let her see the finished quilt if she likes it then say "I made it for you, hugs!" If she doesnt' like it, hang it on your couch and wait till she finds fabric she likes.
Now THAT is a good plan. If she is not appreciative, odds are you are putting in a lot of time, love, and effort for nothing. (Just because someone is family, doesn't mean they understand quilting)