May I encourage you to keep going on this fantastic to be room. I was in this situation (another health problem)but each day I would huff and puff working through and finally got it done (my husband had MS and could not do this). That tough but it did keep me going. Remember little by little. I will pray for your health to continue to the good and for strength for your daily needs. You stated your DH is killing you? What does that mean; is he simply worried about you?