I'm sorry that your sister's insensitivity hurt your feelings. I would make a quilt using the red, white, and black fabric because you already have it. I agree with many of the board members about having your sister purchase fabric and a pattern she likes. She probably has no idea how expensive fabric is, so it might be an eye opening experience for her. Then your sister would hopefully not expect you to make her boyfriend a quilt too. You can only guess what country theme she may be referring to.