I agree with everyone else, get her to find the fabric she wants and let her puchase it, and mail it to you, then make her a quilt
and not worry about the boyfriend. After all many of them are like the "seasons, they just come and go". Make it for your sister and if boyfriend doesn't like it tough, it isn't for him anyway. Be sure to label it for your sis,with her name on it so bf can't claim it. If they stay together you can make him one later if you want. Just worry about your sis, and as others have said if she doesn't like it, you have only spent the long hours of time on it and not the $$, if she picks the fab. it's her choice of "country" not yours.
Here's a suggestion. Make her a quilt from the denim, and bandana fab. I have a pattern for a pineapple quilt, I made for my son using denim and blue bandana fab.if you are interested, I will send you a copy, just p.m. me.
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