sheesh, my mom always said that too. THen, I had one just like me, just like I expected, and it was wonderful. Though there were many times I called my mom to apologize. My daughter is just like I was in many ways (not all, and I wish she were more geeky like me than she was!) and we were a perfect mommy-daughter pair. so there! and my mom thought my Joy was perfect too, even if she was just like me