That is so true.When I'm about to make a quilt for someone, I think it thru.If it's a GO,that quilt is the same as done & gone to me.It is what it is & hopefully they will appreciate it,but I'll never know. The fun for me is in the doing.JMO
On that note, someone made a post earlier about not getting the kind of thanks they want and or expect when they help someone out. But one of the greatest lessons I've learned in life is to not look to others to validate your worth, or in this instant, your charity. If you have no hidden agenda, simply giving should be enough. Everything else, is just, everything else.
Just my two cents.