my hubby-to-be has to tell me everything 3 times... on 3 different days... oh..and just about everything I have read here.. Thank god he learned to stay the heck out of my KITCHEN!!! I almost stabbed him one day.. and he has never step foot in my kitchen since... (at least not while I am home) but he knows if he messes anything up in my kitchen I will make him remove EVERYTHING from EVERY cupboard and orgnaize it in alphabetical order and wash EVERY dish we own to teach him.. he only did that ONCE before he learned!