thanks for your kind words and for watching out for me. this is what was decided. if i could drive most times on dating sites they met for coffee like at mc donalds. how long could that last 15 minutes? so i told him we will meet for 15 minutes at my house. he will NOT come in. i told him it will be timed even if we are still talking he has to leave. after he leaves if he is still interested in me call. if i am still interested in him i will pick up the phone.
i was in real estate and had to take men to empty houses by myself, i was in my 20's. one of them after i took him to an empty house was arrested for raping an agent a few towns away. nothing frightens me well actuallt people don't frighten me spirits/ghosts do. i will be OK if no one is home.