Hi,all good sugestions.But ya,#1 -Dr. visit. #2 - waterproof matres covers (3). #3- bed pads (all sizes) 12 at least. #4 - medicare will pay for all these things even the depends.My hubby sometimes has accidents,and our dog, and this is what we do.Works out great.And no,I don't cut off liquids from either of them.I can wash the bedding,give them a bath,change the bed,not a big deal to me.One day I might have a problem and would want it done for me.Dignity always wins at my house.