Even in my own family I am careful about who I give a quilt to. My step-daughter had her 20th anniversary last year. I gave her a king size quilt made from a top I purchased from one of the vendors at our guild quilt show several years ago. It was a blue and white pieced star pattern. I had a friend who is a long armer quilt it for me. My step-daughter is a neo natal nurse practioner and washes everything to death. I purchased the top for $85 and my husband paid $160 for the quilting. Two weeks ago I had a chance to see her bedroom. The walls are still blue but she had a store bought luxory spread and matching shams on her bed. I have no idea what happened to the quilt.