I don't know if you are specifically addressing a particular problem, but I've been impressed more than once when someone's post comes off a bit harsher than the poster realized, when I've kept reading, so many times they seem to come back with a softer touch... and by the end of the post, all is well... It's a little like "real life" :lol:
The other thing I feel compelled to mention (being a "big picture" type of person) is how fortunate I feel, sitting here at my computer, looking over at my sewing machine... in my comfy little sewing room... coffee in hand... not too many cares... when so many are suffering so terribly in other parts of the world. I can't do much, but I CAN pray, donate, and try to maintain a healthy perspective on life's little difficulties.
I hope my quilting board friends have a special day and always... Happy Quilting!!