My DH is an enabler, He is always telling me to go buy, I often say no because I already have more than I can catch up on. He gets pushy though, and I buy to keep him happy. THEN in a short time a package will arrive for him, he buys a little or big something for himself!!! What's good for the goose....
He tells me to buy To shut me up when he shops....Gotta love it
Come to think of it, My DH is probably using some of YOUR hide and sneak methods!!!!!!