I don't care how many antiques he buys and he doesn't care how much fabric I buy as long as we don't spend more than we have. I get Social Security & he told me when I married me, he intended to support me & I can use my ss money for anything I want. He never says anything to me, except "where are you going to put it" and "are you ever going to use any of that fabric?" He also tells me when we go to Missoula (closest JoAnns) that JoAnns is closed for the day, but he lets me go if I want.