I couldn't hide if I wanted to. Every time I use the debit card, he gets an email from the bank that shows I made a purchase at where ever and how much I spent.
But it wouldn't matter. The man encourages me to spend and sew. We stopped at my sewing machine shop recently for me to buy a notion. He sees a Pfaff on sale for $6,500 and starts asking the store clerk questions about it like he is going to buy it for me. I had to drag him out of there! LOL! I'm the tight one at our house. LOLOL