Originally Posted by Lisa_wanna_b_quilter
No sneaking here. My husband and I make no comments on how we each spend money. We are both frugal people who don't spend above our means.
My husband never asks what I bought or how much I spent.
If he knows I am going after something specific, he might ask
if I found what I was looking for. He never says anything about
what I buy; kinda like you we both know what we can spend
and what we can't. The only time I ask him is if I give him a blank check and I ask how much so I know what to enter in
the check register.