i do hand quilting at church & I know a lot of quilters but they all have there own friends that they do thing with . It's ok I was told & found out that if you are not from here it is hard to make friend & at my age 63 it is even harder. So I accept the way of life here . At my church I was quilting on one quilt all by myself while 7 ladies sweeze on the other quilt so they all can talk to each other, I just accept that, I just offer it all up to God & they call them self Christian, REALLY they are no more a christian then they are a car if they stand in there garage...