I agree leave it in God's hands.
Either way both will take time. Unless you already have a house in mind to buy that alone can take a while to find and get to the closing and moving in. Plus the timing of selling your own house.
As for having children... let God bless you with His timing. Since you can't start the family til later this year I'd start by getting organized with what you are looking for in a house, the details of selling your house and all the other Pre work that needs to be done.