Old 03-22-2011, 10:23 AM
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bearisgray
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Just wondering -

If someone ASKS for help in improving his/her skills -

I think it's a kindness to tell/show the person where alternate (better) techniques can be used.

It is a disservice to tell someone that something is wonderful when it isn't.

It is good to be accentuate the positive - but how can a person improve/change - if one has no idea of what is wrong or how the condition can be changed/improved?

It isn't so much "what is said" - as "how it's said"

If the person is fishing for compliments - find one and give it -

If the person truly wants to improve his/her work - then give suggestions IF ASKED FOR.
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