Sorry, but I find that pretty insensitive and quite frankly, rude on her part. You made her a lovely quilt from your heart. She was wrong to do what she did, plain and simple. If she likes ruffles, she can add them in many places in her room. She didn't need to hurt your feelings by not only adding to your quilt, but then declaring it "finally beautiful". Seriously, this lady needs some lessons in manners, friendship and graciousness, qualities you seem to have in spades! :-D