My feelings are that when you allow another person to get to you for no matter what reason then you are allowing them control over your feelings. She wins and you lose. Please don't let inconsiderate feelings from others make you feel miserable. Believe in yourself enough to know you are being the best you can be and not allow others to make you feel inferior in any way. Many of the comments listed above are so very true. But IMHO we are our own worst enemy in most situations when we allow others to make us feel bad and continue to stew over what was said. Their opinion/s should hold no value in your heart/head when your own self worth should be the most important thing for you. Believe in yourself and your accomplishments no matter what they are. You are the best YOU....and never allow anyone to take that away from you.