Wow ! I have never posted something that struck such a chord.
I see so many ways to explain this woman's comment ( by the way, it is every time I see her), why I should not comment - why start a dialogue of my obvious disabilities, and some wonderful ( !) candy for my mind - things I can say to myself as I walk away!
Thank you all. I agree, not said in malice, but once said, does not need repeated.
thank you everyone !!