I wouldn't let it offend you. She must not want to do it. I have a full time job(with occasional lay-offs) and I have three children(four if you count the bf) and I still have time to make supper, run the kids everywhere they need to go, make sure everything is taken care of, and still make time to sew. I don't get to do it everyday but, I do it when I can. I make sure to do charity quilts every year and make cat and dog beds for the local shelter. In my opinion, it's her cop-out for not making them.