I am so grateful I don't have to work and I have the time and energy to make quilts. At one time, I felt I had to go to work to help support my family and it was hard. I didn't have time to or energy to knit or crochet like I did when I stayed at home. But now I get to stay at home and take care of my house and quilt and sew and just have a nice restful life. You are the lucky one as I feel I am too.