There is no excuse for not having common courtesy! I am 27 I say "yes, sir" "no, sir" "please" "Thank you" and my five year old does as well. I think it is the person. I show people things that I am making just to see how they react the ones who could care less, I could care less to make anything for! it takes a lot of time and love to make these quilts. I would've called her and told her what I thought of her lack of manners. I have been supper lucky and have had nothing but outstanding show of appreciation for the couple of quilts I have given! You should come and hang out with my family, we may not have much but we appreciate what we have and give thanks for everything we receive! It is a beautiful quilt!