Don't get discouraged. I think it is important in your first few quilts to do it all yourself. That way you learn the whole process. From choosing the fabric, choosing the pattern, cutting the fabric and sewing it together. There is a lot to learn. I took a class when I was first starting. 6 week beginning quilting. The teacher was a bit arogant but she knew her stuff and I learned alot. Find another quilt store and keep trying. This is a wonderful hobby and there are a lot of ladies on this board to help you out.