UPDATE.............my love life........he has not contacted the fake me anymore. It was just the first day and even though I contacted him through the fake person 2 more times he didn't respond. we talk on the phone almost everyday. Sometimes it is 5 minutes other time about an hour. I spoke to him 3 times yesterday now I think what he did was sweet. Joyce's car is having major problems and he said it shouldn't be it is not that old for those kinds of problems the repair guys is telling her. He works on his own cars, he raced when he was younger. Anyway he had to pick up a part for his car and he was walking in the place and said he would call me right back. About 1/2 hour went by and no call. I figured he forgot. He didn't, when he called he told me he was talking to the guys about Joyce's car and they said what it could be. He asked me questions of which I didn't know the answers so he said he wants to talk to Joyce to try and get to the bottom of why there are so many problems with it. I thought that was so sweet that he took the time to find out about Joyce car. I told him wechave been speaking on the phone for 42 days when will we meet. He said he wanted to meet me weeks ago but there has always been a reason we couldn't. He has been working 12 hour shifts and 1 weekend he had plans with his brother then it was my b-day and Joyce kept changing plans on me. Then his car broke down and he had to fix it. Then Jim was here sooooooooooooooooo......if everything goes as planned he is suppose to come here tomorrow. I called the shots as to how it will work. If I could drive we would have met someplace for coffee. Now how long would the meeting have been? 15 minutes to a few hours. If things didn't work out I could have just walked out. But since I can't drive it will be a 15 minute meeting. He will come to my house I will go outside. HE WILL NOT BE COMING IN! After 15 minutes he will leave if he is still interested he will call me if I am still interested I will pick up the phone.